Well, here we are again … earning our reputation as a cantankerous, mean, judgmental, hurtful group of people. Christians. If you’ve missed the hubbub, Bart Willard of Mercy Me sent out a tweet on Twitter saying Ellen DeGeneres was funny and doing a good job hosting the Oscars. That unleashed a rash of mean and nasty responses from tons of church folks that was, frankly, embarrassing to me. Personally, I believe they also misrepresent our Jesus too.
I am reblogging Bart’s thoughts on the whole mess here. He raises some excellent points.
Thanks for your words, Bart. Might we all dare to fully believe that saturating Grace is available to all who discover Christ. Might we understand that our words, actions and attitudes have the power to attract or repel. Might we love like Jesus and trust the Spirit to do His work.
“Christ has liberated us to be free. Stand firm then and don’t submit again to a yoke of slavery. Take note! I, Paul, tell you that if you get yourselves circumcised, Christ will not benefit you at all. Again I testify to every man who gets himself circumcised that he is obligated to keep the entire law. You who are trying to be justified by the law are alienated from Christ; you have fallen from grace. For through the Spirit, by faith, we eagerly wait for the hope of righteousness. For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision accomplishes anything; what matters is faith working through love. You were running well. Who prevented you from obeying the truth? This persuasion did not come from the One who called you. A little yeast leavens the whole lump of dough. I have confidence in the Lord you will not accept any other view. But whoever it is that is confusing you will pay the penalty. Now brothers, if I still preach circumcision, why am I still persecuted? In that case the offense of the cross has been abolished. I wish those who are disturbing you might also get themselves castrated! For you were called to be free, brothers; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through love. For the entire law is fulfilled in one statement: Love your neighbor as yourself. But if you bite and devour one another, watch out, or you will be consumed by one another.”
Galatians 5: 1-15 HCSB
Welp. The Spirit has given me the green light to say something.
For those of you who don’t know, I tweeted, during the oscars “Let me just say @theellenshow is hilarious. She was on Leno the night we played. Super nice!”
That’s it. And that post apparently ticked off a few religious folk.
Now to be fair, I was referring to her hosting the oscars. Her twitter name is @theEllenShow, so maybe some thought I was referring to her actual show. I’ve seen her show once maybe twice, and as funny as those episodes were, I was in fact referring to her hosting the oscars. It’s Bruno Mars all over again, but I digress.
I’ve honestly sat here reading every post, tearing through several emotions. Biting my tongue in anger. Pumping my fist with excitement when someone “gets it” and deeply saddened to see legalism alive and well.
But I think the comments that have been the most difficult for me to swallow are the one’s wondering why I’d ever say anything at all. These were hard to read because I constantly struggle with the enemy telling me the same thing.
This is what the enemy says to me:
“Just keep that to yourself. You’re gonna cause controversy.”
“What good comes out of you stirring the pot?”
“How are christians gonna make a difference if we can’t even agree, so hush!”
“Don’t stick your neck out there. You just said Ellen was funny and nice and they ate you alive! Good thing it wasn’t something really bad!”
And here’s what the spirit has sounded like:
“Man what if Ellen actually met someone capable of loving her on my behalf?”
“What if the cross actually gutted sin so I can live in grace rather than on guard?”
“Remember if I never paid attention to the “lost” I would have never seen you.”
For a long time I’ve tried to figure out why the church, myself included, becomes so militant about certain issues. For me? It was too complicated and too messy to invest in someone’s life and love them where they are in hopes they’d meet Jesus, have the spirit dwell inside them and watch that same spirit finish the work He so graciously started. Instead, I’d look for the “holy high-5” by merely screaming, tweeting or facebooking how everything of the world sickens me and we should “love the sinner, hate the sin!” I absolutely HATE that saying by the way. How about we love the person, where they are? Know their name…invest in them so they start to see their “sin” doesn’t have to define them? Show them a gospel that is desirable, inviting and gracious instead of summing them up with a saying from a bumper sticker.
I think the core of why we are the way we are is because most of the church has no clue who we are in Christ! I honestly believe that is the root of every problem we face! Why can’t we just love our neighbor as ourselves? Right?
I’ve got good news and bad news folks!
The good news:
We Christians are actually pretty dang good at loving our neighbors as ourselves! It’s true!
The bad news:
We hate ourselves! We’ve bought the enemy’s lie that we cannot be trusted. That we have a wretched heart. Therefore we love our neighbor about as much as we can muster the strength to love our sorry selves.
If you are in Christ, you are redeemed, righteous and holy! (Romans 3:24, Romans 5:1, Romans 6:18, Romans 11:16)
You now have the heart and mind of Christ! (1Corinthians 1:30, 1Corinthians 2:16, 2Corinthians 5:17)
When you grasp the grace and love Christ bathes over you, it becomes much easier to do the same to others. Not just to other believers, but all others!
So give yourself a little credit. You now have the same spirit, who raised Christ from the dead, dwelling inside you!
Oh and try letting that spirit lead you! Life becomes an adventure when you do. Was my tweet about Ellen spirit lead? Actually yes. Rarely do I post something without thinking of the repercussions it might have. In the past, I’d sometimes be afraid to stir things up, and other times I’d do it to spite people. For that I apologize. These days I really do try and follow the spirit. I don’t listen or get it right every time, but thanks to grace, it’s ok! Christ has already forgotten the moments that were NOT spirit led and will one day smile on all the moments that were!
And hey! If you’re saying your need to defend a gospel that needs no defending is spirit led?
Then knock yourself out! Who am I to judge? It simply means He’s using you, as He is me, to reveal more of Him. And for that I am grateful. 😉
I’d like to wrap this up by re-posting the scripture I started with, but this time from “The Message Bible.” It gave me a whole new perspective, yet speaking the same truth.
I’m learning my walk with Christ is about perspective. Having the perspective that I’m a redeemed child of God who, until Christ calls me home, still wrestles with the flesh, rather than a genuinely bad person just trying to be good. And trust me, my new perspective has changed EVERYTHING!
Welcome to the New,
Sorry you had to see this Ellen, if in fact you ever do see this. Please know, contrary to some beliefs, there is a God who is madly in love with you…right where you are.
And for what it’s worth…you’re still hilarious.
“Christ has set us free to live a free life. So take your stand! Never again let anyone put a harness of slavery on you. I am emphatic about this. The moment any one of you submits to circumcision or any other rule-keeping system, at that same moment Christ’s hard-won gift of freedom is squandered. I repeat my warning: The person who accepts the ways of circumcision trades all the advantages of the free life in Christ for the obligations of the slave life of the law. I suspect you would never intend this, but this is what happens. When you attempt to live by your own religious plans and projects, you are cut off from Christ, you fall out of grace. Meanwhile we expectantly wait for a satisfying relationship with the Spirit. For in Christ, neither our most conscientious religion nor disregard of religion amounts to anything. What matters is something far more interior: faith expressed in love. You were running superbly! Who cut in on you, deflecting you from the true course of obedience? This detour doesn’t come from the One who called you into the race in the first place. And please don’t toss this off as insignificant. It only takes a minute amount of yeast, you know, to permeate an entire loaf of bread. Deep down, the Master has given me confidence that you will not defect. But the one who is upsetting you, whoever he is, will bear the divine judgment. As for the rumor that I continue to preach the ways of circumcision (as I did in those pre-Damascus Road days), that is absurd. Why would I still be persecuted, then? If I were preaching that old message, no one would be offended if I mentioned the Cross now and then—it would be so watered-down it wouldn’t matter one way or the other. Why don’t these agitators, obsessive as they are about circumcision, go all the way and castrate themselves! It is absolutely clear that God has called you to a free life. Just make sure that you don’t use this freedom as an excuse to do whatever you want to do and destroy your freedom. Rather, use your freedom to serve one another in love; that’s how freedom grows. For everything we know about God’s Word is summed up in a single sentence: Love others as you love yourself. That’s an act of true freedom. If you bite and ravage each other, watch out—in no time at all you will be annihilating each other, and where will your precious freedom be then?
Galatians 5:1-15 the message